Desperation Single and Otherwise
Time goes by, I get in more conversations with married people about being religious and desperate...and a disconcerting number of whom respond with bizarrely blanket comments (mumbled and coupled with a smirk) like "being married doesn't solve your problems..". Obviously it helps some of them...Occasionally lonely and occasionally desperate IS NOT equal to always lonely and always desperate. Soon by me, my tuchas!...rather than blithering out half-tuchased 'blessings', maybe make some reasonable shidduch suggestions, people! Emphasis on reasonable! NJOP president R. Buchwald gave the statistic that more than half the people who aren't married in relation to coming to a Torah life - leave Torah.